Being single can be tough. Even if you are independent and happy with your singledom, many people seem to forget that being single can actually be a choice. An increasing number of people are (fortunately) realizing that settling down with the wrong person or latching onto a relationship for fear of being alone is never worth it. But just because you are generally okay with being single doesn't mean you don't experience moments, however fleeting, when you wish you weren't. After all, finding your soulmate and falling in love sounds appealing to just about anyone – whether or not they are willing to admit it.
From family gatherings to trying to make plans with your friends, sometimes being single invites a lot of frustrating comments and questions from those around you. While you know they aren't trying to be rude, there a handful of things most single people are tired of hearing. Below are the 30 most annoying things to hear when you are single.
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Why Did You Guys Break Up?
For a bunch of reasons – all of which are none of your business. Even if it was, discussing WHY my last relationship didn't work out is almost more frustrating (okay, fine, painful) than discussing the fact that I am no longer in one at all.
How Are You Still Single?
I know, right? I am so attractive and funny and great. I have no idea why I am still single. Maybe I should call my exes and ask. When I figure it out, you'll be the first to know!
You're Young. You Have Plenty of Time.
I know that. But "plenty of time" can't cuddle with me. And I am getting older every day.
Are You Dating Anyone?
Nope. But I do appreciate these daily reminders of the fact that I am, and probably will be, forever alone.
We Need To Find Someone To Set You Up With.
We don't "need" to do anything. I can handle my personal life on my own, thank you very much. But, for real, are they good looking?
Have You Tried Online Dating?
Unfortunately, yes. If perpetually swiping left on Tinder constitutes "online dating." Then yes, I have tried it and have miserably failed at it.
How Haven't You Met Someone?
How haven't you realized that question is just a backhanded compliment? I don't know how I haven't met anyone. But I also know it isn't fair to make finding someone you want to commit to sound as easy as finding a new pair of jeans.
Are You Afraid of Commitment?
No. But I am afraid of committing to the wrong person. Which is why I haven't. Which is why I am single – in case that hasn't already been established.
You'll Eventually Find the Right One.
For some reason, hearing that you will "eventually" find the right one can be more depressing than the fact that you are single. As if I already didn't know reaching that "end goal" would be a long, excruciating journey.
Your Ex Is Here.
Great, because as if being at this overcrowded dive bar wasn't excruciating enough, now I need to pretend to be happy while meeting my ex's new partner. Yay!